3 Simple Steps to More Powerful Sales Conversations

You’ve probably heard the expression “the tip of the iceberg.” You’ve also probably heard the origin of the phrase – 90% of an iceberg’s mass is actually below the surface of the water (thanks to the difference in density between seawater and pure ice).

But did you know how much sales has in common with iceberg research?

Icebergs hold a great deal of information of interest to researchers, who study them to learn more about climate change and ocean processes. Icebergs are also closely monitored to ensure clear pathways through major shipping lanes.

Scientists have recently been investigating the use of SONAR in locating and measuring icebergs. While a huge percentage of an iceberg lies below the water’s surface, it’s difficult to know exactly how large that underwater ice actually is. Scientists start by looking at the above-water portion – it’s a big one. They can then use SONAR to “ping” the iceberg under the water to learn, little by little, the size and shape of the underwater portion. Holy cow – it’s a monstrosity!

If you’re listening closely, this might start to sound awfully similar to consultative selling. Salespeople start with the surface-level problem – hmm, seems like a big one. They then “ping” the prospect with insightful questions to gauge the real size of the problem. There’s hidden pain underneath – and it can often be much larger than the pain appears on the surface.

As it turns out, this type of “pinging for pain” is one of the most important consultative selling skills we teach. We make it easy for salespeople to remember with a simple acronym:

  • I – Intellectual – tip of the iceberg – we don’t know how big the pain is, but we have an indicator
  • C – Convert – move the prospect from an I mindset to an E state
  • E – Emotional – the more emotion on a personal level, the deeper the pain

Intellectual – Identify Surface-Level Pain

Early in the selling conversation, your prospect will send out some signals or clues as to the nature of their pain. Think of this as the tip of the iceberg. If you were the captain of an icebreaking vessel, surveying an ice field, you would see innumerable hunks of ice that might or might not represent a hulking, dangerous iceberg below the surface. Some of those hunks of ice might just graze the waterline. Your prospect’s needs are like that ice field: some problems will be surface-level, and others will run deep.

Convert – Use Active Listening to “Ping for Pain”

We “ping” by using a consultative selling skill called Active Listening. During Active Listening, salespeople ask open-ended questions to engage the prospect and keep her talking. The questions become decidedly more personal—or emotional—as we progress down the iceberg and start learning about the depth and breadth of the problem.

Hone your consultative selling skills with the Iceberg Technique

Source: Stanford Aerospace Robotics Lab, Terrain Relative Navigation

Examples of useful “ping” questions include:

  • How does this problem affect your job?
  • What would it look like for this problem to be solved?
  • What would it mean for you, personally, if you didn’t get this problem sorted out?
  • What are the consequences of that problem?

Your goal is to get your prospect talking about how this issue impacts her personally.

Emotional – Engage Your Prospect to Determine Real Pain

Using Active Listening, you’ll be able to determine if the surface level pain you identified at the beginning of the conversation is really a serious pain that needs to be addressed. During this process, you might find your prospect is engaging in the same process of discovery that you are. She might not have realized the depth and breadth of the issue she was sitting on. By helping your prospect discover her problem, you will also reveal your value as a problem-solver in offering your solution.

Every sales conversation has two levels: the intellectual and the emotional. Most prospects choose to move forward based on emotional engagement, even if later they justify their decision on intellectual grounds. Getting your selling conversation into the emotional arena will help you better understand your prospect’s needs and present a more compelling solution.

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By | 2017-06-27T11:52:50+00:00 October 14th, 2014|Sales Success|0 Comments

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Charles Bernard is the CEO at Criteria for Success. He writes about sales, sales leadership, social selling best practices, time management, and anything related to helping others make sales success a habit.

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